8 Early Signs of Hoarding Disorder and How to Spot Them
Hoarding is more than just collecting or having a messy home. It’s a condition that can affect a person’s daily life, relationships, and overall well-being. Recognizing the early signs of hoarding can be important in making it easier to manage and preventing further deterioration.
Let’s break down the early warning signs of hoarding disorder, why it happens, and what can be done to help.
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What Is hoarding disorder?
Hoarding disorder is when someone has extreme difficulty letting go of possessions, leading to excessive clutter that makes their living space unsafe or unusable. Unlike regular collecting, hoarding is driven by anxiety and emotional distress. People with hoarding disorder often feel intense fear or sadness at the thought of throwing things away.
Why people with hoarding disorder hang on to things?
People often hang on to objects and sentimental items for a number of reasons, Dr Carolyn Rodriguez, MD, PhD, explains why people with hoarding disorder (HD) hang on to objects in this video from the International OCD foundation.
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so all of us enjoy having objects they
bring meaning to and joy to our life
individuals with hoarding disorder are
no different from all of us we have
three main reasons that we keep objects
so one is sentimentality something that
reminds you of a happy time or a loved
one the second is the aesthetics you
know walking along the beach and seeing
a beautiful seashell you want to take it
home and and remember the beauty of the
day and the end the object and the other
is the usefulness so I don't want to
throw this away it could come in handy
someday
now individuals with hoarding disorder
have these same reasons but they're
magnified so objects may have all three
of these reasons or the feelings may be
more intense and that's really where the
attachment comes in and the difficulty
parting with objects individuals with
hoarding disorder are very creative and
they can come up with lots of uses for a
particular object and you know had
clients where something as simple as a
toilet paper roll they could use it for
binoculars for a kids a child's science
fair project you know can be donated to
a local school an art project could be
made out of it however one of the
differences of distinguishes an artist
versus somebody with hoarding disorder
is that those ideas are not fulfilled
and realized so when you asked somebody
with hoarding disorder they don't have
plans to donate it to a school
they don't have plans to make an object
they may have plans but they don't
actually execute on that one of the
things I would say about hoarding
disorder is that it stems from some
characteristics deep within us as human
beings that are actually positive so
wanting to be conserving resources and
throughout the evolution of man
it's been important in times of
relatively few resources to gather
resources and it's been very adaptive
but as time has kind of gone by with
Industrial Revolution and also a lot of
advertising we get more and more
pressure that taps into the that
fundamental need to save and conserve resources
Early signs of hoarding
If you’re concerned that a friend, family member, or even yourself might be developing hoarding tendencies, here are some of the first warning signs to look for:
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One of the biggest signs of hoarding is struggling to throw things away, even when they are broken, expired, or unnecessary. The person may feel strong emotional attachment to objects or fear they will need them in the future.
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At first, clutter may seem manageable, but over time, piles of items start to take over rooms, making it hard to use furniture or move around.
The clutter often builds up in an unorganized way, making it difficult to clean or find things.
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People with early-stage hoarding disorder often feel extreme distress when asked to part with items.
They may experience anxiety, sadness, or even anger if someone suggests cleaning up.
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Hoarders may keep items that seem unnecessary or excessive, such as stacks of old newspapers, empty containers, or broken electronics. Some may even hoard things with little to no sentimental or practical value.
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A clear red flag is when rooms start to lose their intended purpose—chairs covered in piles of clothing, sinks filled with unused dishes, or beds covered in stacks of books and papers.
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Someone in the early stages of hoarding may struggle to sort or organize their belongings. Even if they want to clean up, they may feel overwhelmed and not know where to start.
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Hoarders often feel compelled to buy or collect items they don’t need, even when they already have multiples of the same thing. They might say, “I might need this someday” or “It was such a good deal, I couldn’t pass it up.”
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As clutter builds up, people may start avoiding visitors because they feel embarrassed about their living conditions. They might isolate themselves from family and friends to hide the problem.
Why do people start hoarding?
Hoarding disorder is complex and can be linked to different factors, including:
Trauma or Loss: A past painful experience, like the death of a loved one, can trigger hoarding as a way to hold onto memories.
Anxiety or OCD: Some people with hoarding disorder also struggle with anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), or depression.
Fear of Scarcity: Growing up with little or experiencing financial hardship can lead to a strong fear of not having enough.
Perfectionism: Some hoarders feel that if they throw something away, they might regret it, so they keep everything just in case.
What Can Be Done to Help Hoarders?
If you notice these early signs in yourself or someone else, taking small steps can help prevent hoarding from getting worse.
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Instead of tackling an entire home, start with one small area, like a single drawer or countertop.
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Decide on a realistic number of items to keep, such as keeping only 10 books instead of 50.
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Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist can help. Hoarding disorder often requires professional help, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT).
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If clutter is creating fire hazards or making it difficult to move around, safety should be the top priority.
Hoarding disorder develops over time, and recognizing the early warning signs is the first step to addressing it. By understanding the emotional and psychological reasons behind hoarding, loved ones can offer support in a compassionate and effective way. If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that help is available, and small changes can make a big difference.
Resources for Further Reading in the US
Local Hoarding Task Forces and Support Groups
By approaching the situation with understanding and care, you can provide meaningful support without pushing them away.
Find support for people who are experiencing hoarding in the UK through Help for Hoarders, Hoarding Disorders UK or Hoarding UK today.
Written by Cara Hernon BSc Medical Science
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