10 Signs You’re Emotionally Burnt Out (And How to Recover)

Feeling drained, overwhelmed, or just done with everything? Emotional burnout is real, and it can sneak up on you before you even realize it. Here are 10 telltale signs you’re emotionally exhausted—plus tips on how to bounce back.

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1. You’re tired all the time

No matter how much sleep you get, you still wake up exhausted. Burnout fatigue isn’t just physical—it’s mental and emotional, too.

Recovery tip: Prioritize rest, but also engage in activities that recharge you, like hobbies or light exercise.

2. You feel detached from everything

Things that used to excite you? Meh. Conversations feel like a chore, and you find yourself zoning out more often than not.

Recovery tip: Reconnect with small joys—listen to your favorite music, watch a comfort show, or spend time in nature.


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3. You’re easily irritated

Little things set you off, whether it’s a slow internet connection or someone asking, “How’s your day?” It’s like you have no patience left.

Recovery tip: Take a deep breath before reacting. Consider journaling to release bottled-up frustration.

 

4. You struggle to concentrate

Your brain feels foggy, and even simple tasks feel overwhelming. You keep rereading the same sentence without absorbing anything.

Recovery tip: Try the Pomodoro technique—work in short bursts with breaks in between to avoid mental exhaustion

 

5. You’re emotionally numb

You don’t feel sad, angry, or happy—you just feel nothing. It’s like your emotions have gone on vacation without you.

Recovery tip: Engage in mindfulness or grounding exercises to reconnect with your emotions.

 
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6: You’re avoiding people

Even texting back feels like too much effort. Socializing drains you, and you’d rather be left alone.

Recovery tip: Give yourself permission to take space but try small interactions, like a short call with a close friend.

 

7. You aren’t looking after yourself

You’re skipping meals, ignoring exercise, and forgetting basic hygiene. Everything just feels like too much work.

Recovery tip: Start small—drink water, take a quick shower, or go for a short walk. Small steps lead to bigger improvements.

 

8. You have physical symptoms

Headaches, stomachaches, body tension—your body is screaming that something’s wrong, but you’re too exhausted to listen.

Recovery tip: Pay attention to your body. Stretch, hydrate, and consider a relaxing activity like a warm bath or yoga.

 

9. Decision making has become overwhelming

“What should I eat?” “What should I wear?” Even minor choices feel impossible to make, leaving you stuck in decision paralysis.

Recovery tip: Limit choices where possible—meal prep, plan outfits in advance, or follow a simple routine.

 

10. You aren’t yourself

You look in the mirror and barely recognize yourself. You miss the version of you that felt energized and excited about life.

Recovery tip: Be kind to yourself. Burnout doesn’t happen overnight, and neither does healing. Start with one small act of self-care each day.

If these signs sound familiar, it’s time to prioritize yourself. Emotional burnout isn’t a badge of honor—it’s a signal to slow down, set boundaries, and take care of your well-being. Small changes can make a big difference.

 

Written By Cara Hernon BSc Medical Science

 

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Cara Hernon

BSc Medical Science

Hi, it’s Cara here.

Before founding On the Uppp, I spent my career creating content for physical health and mental health services, working on public health campaigns and acting as a policy consultant for mental health. The longer I worked in the field, the clearer it became that we needed to shift away from clinical language, and share wellbeing skills in a way people can hear us. A big shift, from mental health as a problem to something more aspirational.

Most of us want to be able to cope with the challenges of life a little better, that’s why I’ve developed On the Uppp to give users the guidance they need to begin to tackle whatever is on their mind. 

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